Just my opinion, he could of avoided all of this mess, if he were up front about it in the first place. I feel he was and is being deceitful. I say he, because I don't consider a person without a uterus and ovaries a woman.
So you are saying I am not a woman? You need to rephrase that because according to you, I am only one pill away from being a man! Try to explain that to my children and grandchildren or better yet to my husband!