Another Dating/Relationship or non dating relationship question

[Aimeey7]

Suppose a girl is in a "friends with benefits" deal, and the guy asks to take it from FWB to a meaningful LTR.
The girl says nothing, kisses him and they end up having sex.
The guy assumes the girl's actions constituted a "yes" to his LTR request.
The girl says "hell no, I did not answer yes or no, my actions did not constitute agreement!"

Who's right, who's wrong here?

[Boo]

If the girl was smart should she would of answered the question before sex began! Be straight up don't let a man assume anything! It's not fair!

[WDVE]

Blame it on Mr. Johnson.

[Wiener]

Well you should be old enough to know that if you leave a question unanswered, the other party is gonna assume that they answer is gonna be the yes.

Don't drag someone along like that all you are going to do in the end is mess up something you liked, and make yourself look like you don't know what in the heck you are doing or what you want.

[beefman]

when you have sex with a man its like telling him everything is ok. Thats why its the first thing you cut off when your pissed at a man.

[RobinQuillonsHair]

The girl should have honestly answered him before kissing him and having sex.  If the answer was no and sex was still needed the girl should have finished, got dressed and left or finished and told him to pack his things and GTFO.

The girl was clearly wrong in this case.  

[lexiconic]

Like any relationship, I think a good FWB relationship (and it IS a relationship in it's own way) requires good communication between the partners. If you lose the communication or if you never had it in the first place, the relationship eventually breaks down because one or both of the partners may be unsure or unaware of what the other person needs and desires.

In this situation, the change in desire to move from a FWB relationship and into a LTR in one partner, but not the other, pretty much spells out the end of the relationship. The partner who is seeking a deeper commitment deserves the freedom to find that commitment elsewhere if such a commitment isn't available from the current partner. And of course, the partner who isn't interested in anything more than a FWB situation needs to be with someone who understands their own desires.

So yes, saying nothing was the wrong thing to do, even in a FWB situation. Honesty and communication between sexual partners is a must regardless of the type of relationship.

[Wiener]

Well put Lexi.