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« on: September 07, 2009, 09:45:46 PM »

Good, bad, or indifferent?
Think they can work?
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« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2009, 12:22:36 AM »

Friends with benefits or what we called in my day a "**** Buddy".

If the sexual attraction is there, feelings for one or both will follow.  If it is one they don't work out, if it is both they may or may not give it a try.

You have to set the rules up front and one of them should be if any feeling develop, we have to talk.  Keep a good communication line open ( that is any relationship).     Make sure they always know exactly where you stand, don't let anything open for confusion.
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« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2009, 11:01:47 AM »

That's tghe problem with every one I've been in, comes to a point that they want more. SOme I believe enetred in with the unsatted intention or hope from the beginning which really pisses me off.

Another ironic thing, now, I'm not proud of all my past, and don't do it anymore, but there were f ew married ones in there, and they were the worst. ( at wanting more)
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« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2009, 12:23:23 PM »

As soon as you find one that doesn't want more from you, you will want more from him.  It is just the way it works.
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