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« Reply #135 on: April 13, 2010, 11:01:44 PM » |
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Usually one is numb until after the funeral.
I am sure you did fine.
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« Reply #136 on: April 14, 2010, 08:17:46 AM » |
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How about every morning right after you rise you say a prayer for this Nation you reside in that she doesn't stumble and fall right out from under us all.
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« Reply #137 on: April 14, 2010, 04:26:05 PM » |
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Red i am fine now doing better with the whole thing
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« Reply #138 on: April 14, 2010, 09:43:15 PM » |
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Jessika, I know you'll get through it. It's been almost 2 years since I went through what you're going through. It was hell. I was numb for weeks. Some days I would just get in the car and drive...once I drive over 60 miles one way. I hardly realized it.
It does get better. The hurt never goes away, but the sadness does. Honey, just remember this: Your loved one is always alive, in your heart. She's as close as your memory.
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« Reply #139 on: April 14, 2010, 10:58:53 PM » |
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Thanks Daffy i think i did what she wanted i planned it just like she wanted it ( i think) now i have the task of cleaning out her apartment, scattering her ashes or keeping them havent decided yet. i know i am going to plant a tree somewhere in memory of her and make a donation in memory of her to the humane society because she loved animals. i am feeling a little better about the whole thing. i know things will be okay i guess i am just so used to calling her everyday to make sure she is eating that i have to stop and say to myself oh wait she passed away. i guess i will just gradually not pick up the phone to call the hospital lol
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« Reply #140 on: April 16, 2010, 10:26:39 PM » |
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Aw, Jess.. I am so sorry! Prayers to you!
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« Reply #141 on: May 03, 2010, 11:21:23 AM » |
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Please say a prayer for my cousin and his wife who are on their way from Texas to PA to arrange the funeral of his mother.
He is now the last member of the family as his Dad, and younger brother have both passed away previously.
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« Reply #142 on: May 03, 2010, 02:58:31 PM » |
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Consider it done, redcap.
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« Reply #143 on: May 03, 2010, 04:59:43 PM » |
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Traveling Mercies for the two Red...and prayers for the loss.
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Five Points "You do the best you can. You put the fire out, and wait for another one". In memory of Captain Terence Hatton RS 1 FDNY "Rapid Water"
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« Reply #144 on: May 07, 2010, 07:29:17 PM » |
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Please say a prayer for me... I got an 8wk old Minature Doberman today from a patient!! Please dear Lord, don't let him chew the corners off my new couch!! ..
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« Reply #145 on: May 07, 2010, 08:30:36 PM » |
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What were you thinking?
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« Reply #146 on: May 07, 2010, 08:58:35 PM » |
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Yea Karen what are ya thinkin'
BTW...what did ya name the puppy?
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Five Points "You do the best you can. You put the fire out, and wait for another one". In memory of Captain Terence Hatton RS 1 FDNY "Rapid Water"
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« Reply #147 on: May 07, 2010, 09:14:24 PM » |
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Little Wiener?
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If you are not willing to stand behind our troops, feel free to stand in front of them!
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« Reply #148 on: May 07, 2010, 09:51:45 PM » |
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Okay.. brace yourself .. I named it, "Damn It"! Yes, Damn It!! He's sooo cute and tiny!! Frankie looks so massive compared to him.
Patient had to get rid of him due to severe allergies to dog.. just discovered one week after she got it. He's 8 wks old and so full of life. Has been good for Frankie. She looked at him little while ago, like please lay down somewhere.. anywhere.
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« Reply #149 on: May 08, 2010, 08:02:37 AM » |
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Damn It Karen, why did you go and do that...............
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Five Points "You do the best you can. You put the fire out, and wait for another one". In memory of Captain Terence Hatton RS 1 FDNY "Rapid Water"
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